Responsible for myself , In my opinion if this part of responsibility is achieved then I would consider it a success. I think that self responsibility is some kind of awareness about what we are doing and what is done around us.

So what is my duties toward myself ?

First, of course, is my duty toward Allah, I must plan to after death life like my planning to normal life.

Second, is my duty to satisfy myself, satisfy my need of knowledge, my need of sport, my need of love …… etc.
All of us know these things and I am not writing to say some thing traditional or philosophical.

I am writing because I found a huge defects in me and my friends and I hope to fix any of it.
Example for that, I have some friends who are not responsible for themselves.

If they have exam tomorrow they study before it with one day at most, and when I ask why you are late, they answer with anything that is not convincing at all.
In the vacation they just stay at home, and don’t do anything at all.
They devote themselves to laziness and desperation.
Some of them graduated and when I ask how they are doing in their life, I hear almost the same answers (ahoh 3ayesh), he is not doing anything useful at all except sleeping and considers this a good way of living.
I always motivate them to work and learn and they seem to be motivated, but after one day all what I done vanishes.

So, How can we help them?